The Five Filters
Think before you share the story of the five filters In a high school WhatsApp group, messages are flying in. Jokes, memes, but also... gossip. One day, someone types in a rush: “Omg, I heard something really bad about Jamie! I have to tell you all! ”Before anyone reacts, Sam the quiet, thoughtful one replies: “Hold up. Before you send that... have you run it through the five filters? ”The group goes silent for a moment.
“Five filters? Wtf are you talking about?” Sam explains: “Think before you click or send. Check these first:”
- Is it true? Have you verified it, or is it just something you heard?
- Is it useful? Does it really add value to the conversation, or is it just drama?
- Is it necessary? Do you really need to share this, or is it better left unsaid?
- Is it kind? How would you feel if someone shared something like this about you?
- Is it safe? Could it hurt, shame, or even endanger someone?
The sender pauses. “Whoa… No. Actually, it doesn’t pass any of those. ”Sam replies: “Then maybe it’s better not to send it. Show the same respect online as you would in real life. ”From that day on, the group follows one golden rule:
Food for Thought:
“Respect is not optional even behind a screen.” Be wise with your words. Online is still real life.